Since childhood, I have been wildly fascinated by the realms of the mysterious and unknown. Could it be that my personal idiosyncrasies are shaped purely by the positioning of the stars at my time of birth? Is all of my hard work, preparation, and planning negated by whichever planet is actively in retrograde? Was a map of inescapable fate imprinted on the palms of my hands through pressure and the density of amniotic fluid while I was in utero, to inevitably be met despite my cunning and innumerable attempts to rewrite the chapters that lie ahead?
Being born with a head of thick, wavy-curly hair is something like living in a world of mystery that would lead me to believe that yes, there is undeniably a greater force at work that controls the outcome of all things, because no matter how precisely I follow a cleansing/drying/styling method, each and every time, the result of my labor is different. The consoling factor is that I know I am not alone in this battle, as this is a common complaint in the wavy/curly hair community; adherence to a process is irrelevant, as our hair has a mind of its own.
Nevertheless, some semblance of a routine advisable, as it increases the odds of snagging one of those great hair days we all try to manifest daily. In my personal experience, wash days often leave me with hair as close to what I am after as I typically come, though the many hours it takes for my hair to fully air dry can be painful. And of course, once it has dried into a shape of my liking, I naturally want to preserve those defined, voluminous coils for as long as humanly possible. There are several methods I use to keep my curls intact overnight, which I will share in a later post, but there is one product I consistently reach for come morning time, when I am in need of a little hair revival.
From Alaffia’s website:
“This lightweight nourishing tonic, formulated with Certified Fair Trade shea butter, contains calming calendula extract, vitamins, and conditioning aloe to lock in moisture and refresh your curl pattern in the morning without re-washing. Use during the day to revive and retract expanded curls and minimize frizz.
Ingredients: Calendula ofﬁcinalis (Calendula) Aqueous Extract, Aloe barbadensis (Aloe Vera), Butyrospermum parkii (Shea) Butter*, Emulsifying Wax, Behentrimonium Chloride, Panthenol, Magnesium Sulfate, Vanilla planifolia (Vanilla) Extract, Magnifera indica (Mango) Fruit Extract, Potassium Sorbate Phenoxyethanol, Xanthan Gum, Ascorbic Acid. *Certiﬁed Fair for Life – Social & Fair Trade by IMO.”
I originally picked this product up in the clearance bin at a natural grocery market up in the Idaho panhandle. The price was drastically reduced (though the standard price charged for this tonic, about $10, is very reasonable) and my past experiences with Alaffia products had been purely positive, so this was a no-brainer for me. Upon first use, I was sold.
Curl reviving sprays are hit or miss for me. Some work fine, but I have grown tired of the scent of coconut, which many curly hair products contain. And others do not work at all, leaving me with either a greasy, or totally parched, head of hair. The All Curls Reviving Tonic from Alaffia rests at the sweet spot in between.
In the morning, I first wet my hands with cold water, and run them over my scalp/the front portion of my hairline. Then, I flip all of my hair to one side, give it about five sprays of the Reviving tonic, and repeat on the opposite side, as well as with all of my hair flipped forward. This leaves my hair slightly damp, and ready to be scrunched.
Depending on my hair that day, I might choose to end the process here, or, if a little more moisture is needed, follow up with a few drops of oil, or some gel, for hold. More often than not, this leaves me with refreshed hair that looks good enough to be worn loose.
In sum: the All Curls Reviving Tonic from Alaffia is the ideal curl reviver, providing just the right amount of moisture, working to redefine curls without making the hair appear oily.
What are your secrets to revitalizing your second (or third, or fourth…no judgement!) day curls? I’d love to hear from other inhabitants in this land of mystery and wonder!